13/08/2022
I made an account Detroit MI escort sites. But didn’t take it much further. It seemed like you had to make an effort to find stuff. What have you got to lose?
I have an account there. I’ve met someone from there in real life and it served the exact purpose I was hoping it would. I’ve run across a lot of interesting people on there, though I’ve only met the one IRL.
Like Alex, I’ve found it suits me better to just find someone “vanilla” and open their eyes to what interests me, in hopes that they, too, will be interested.
Think of it more as a way of talking to people on boards and wander around to explore your sexuality, rather than a hookup site
For me it took a while to adjust. It’s a lot to take in. But I’d suggest sticking with it.
But I did meet my ex-boyfriend, a sadist, on there. That was ****ing disaster but I think you might have more of a sense of what you want than I did at the time. And I’m meeting a dominant couple from fet tomorrow night.
It makes a big difference where you are though. I’m in NYC so I’m currently using it more as a way to get involved in the scene here. They advertise munches and parties. I went to a play party last weekend that was. hmm. a lot to take in but very thrilling. It’s an easy way to get involved with your local chapters.
Let me know if you have any questions. That’s about all I’m willing to share on MFP right now. I have more than a few horror stories about my ex and some other encounters, but they’re relatively graphic.
Ok, saw this in my newsfeed and just had to join the group to comment, as I am engaged to a man I met of Fetlife. He lived about 90 mins away, we dated for a year or so and this past spring he proposed. Not at all what I was looking for but it happened.
For the most part, far fewer creepers on Fetlife than MFP. It’s great if you are in a big city, not so much in an average size town. Had lots of support from the local group when I first joined but never got involved with their meetings or demos. The local group turned out to be pretty political.
Ok, saw this in my newsfeed and just had to join the group to comment, as I am engaged to a man I met of Fetlife. He lived about 90 mins away, we dated for a year or so and this past spring he proposed. Not at all what I was looking for but it happened.
For the most part, far fewer creepers on Fetlife than MFP. It’s great if you are in a big city, not so much in an average size town. Had lots of support from the local group when I first joined but never got involved with their meetings or demos. The local group turned out to be pretty political.
Think of it more as a way of talking to people on boards and wander around to explore your sexuality, rather than a hookup site
For me it took a while to adjust. It’s a lot to take in. But I’d suggest sticking with it.
But I did meet my ex-boyfriend, a sadist, on there. That was ****ing disaster but I think you might have more of a sense of what you want than I did at the time. And I’m meeting a dominant couple from fet tomorrow night.